Do you feel you are constantly repeating unwanted unhealthy patterns you can’t seem to break? No matter how hard you try, you never get anywhere except more unhappy. This makes you feel like you are lost, stuck in a rut, a negative loop going nowhere. Or maybe you have accomplished what you thought would make you happy and instead of feeling happy you feel empty. I have built my practice around helping people get unstuck, re-create themselves and find true fulfillment and joy in their lives… from that place I help them go places to they ever thought they could go.
I know how you feel because I have been there and have done it. I recreated my life and spent over ten years helping people do that too. I have successfully developed a unique approach that helps you take charge of your mind which is the gateway to your willpower so you can change any habit or pattern, and create a more satisfying or healthy one.
Most people who come to me say they either they know what they are supposed to do only to lose focus and not do it, or they don’t know what to do anymore because nothing really works or sticks. This emptiness and sense of disillusionment is what leads to all of our subtle addictions in life. Overeating and numbing out is one of the biggest ones. The reason most people don’t just “do it” is because they are using a limited amount of their willpower. Because change has to come from within, and it is only when you understand how your mind really works and how to make it work for you that you can make meaningful change become a reality. Change requires effort and determination. People are unfortunately looking for a magic bullet or a pill. There are things you can learn to do.
Here are some of the keys to successfully to changing a habit:
- Knowing how to eliminate the automatic pilot way many of us live our lives.
- Create and build a vision that is consistent with your true joy and happiness
- Take action small steps towards it everyday
- Be unrelenting, persistent and yes never give up.
- Learn how to master fear.
The problem is that the human personality is naturally resistant to change without the necessity of need, nothing changes. The truth is that change and the having the qualities that lead to success takes will power. Willpower is in your head. So there is really no way around it –you have to learn how to take charge of it and undo the conditioned aspects of you mind that keeps you locked in a stuck position in a feed back loop repeating what you do not want. It is a mind set.
How do I help my clients change their mindset? By changing the way they approach life. People who are successful are not smarter, they just look at things differently. By successful I also mean, happy and fulfilled. This way of looking at things includes the ability to use your imagination, the creative part of your brain, to visualize, see the bigger picture, and not give up or go to the negative when things are not going the way you thought or intended.
If you were not born like that you can develop them. There are proven techniques I teach that can show you how to change the way you look at things and from that place guess what…everything changes. Its magical. I know because I used to be a negative person, glass half empty, and always thinking if things were good it never lasts. This process is based on the powerful mind training techniques of yoga and meditation and taking it into your daily life…it is like yoga for the mind.
This meditation and refocusing practice I created… how to be Sexy, Smart and Sane changed my life. It makes meditation easy and gives you the ability to recreate your life by gaining control of the power that is within you that is lying dormant. Order the Home study program I developed How to Make Mediation Easy and start taking charge of your life now. I am also available for private coaching, to teach this to groups and for public speaking engagements or workshops.
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